I have never met a man who is only capable of talking about his kid. That makes me wonder if the real cause behind this is the deep-rooted heteronormative gender bias that is found in all cultures around the world. The mother is expected to care and nurture while the father is expected to provide for his family. Well, this isn’t the 1950s, so women, please chill!
Get a better ideal for yourself and remember that even if you think of yourself as Radha, the man that you are sleeping with is no Krishna!